Tuesday, June 22, 2021

Romance and Marriage: Kathleen Kenyon and Cyril Von Fumetti, 1949-1955


Cyril and Kathleen Von Fumetti
November 19, 1955


Cyril "Cy" Von Fumetti grew up in Dubuque, Iowa.  Kathleen "Katie" Kenyon grew up in Monroe County, Wisconsin.  Their paths might never have crossed except for Camp McCoy, an Army training base, in Monroe County, between Tomah and Sparta.  


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Cy graduated from high school in 1948 and went to the University of Iowa in Iowa City that fall as a mechanical engineering major.  Needing a way to earn and pay for college expenses he joined the Army ROTC program at the university.  Part of the commitment to the Army included an obligation to participate in summer training. That training took Cy to Camp McCoy the summer of 1949, and the following summers again the next 3 years.  

Cyril met Katie sometime over the summer of 1949 when she was between her Junior and Senior year of high school.  We would not know about that early meeting except that one of her friends made a comment about "Si" in Katie's senior yearbook. 

It was likely a slow to develop friendship or romance because Cyril was not in Monroe County on a regular basis other than during the summers.  Katie had several boyfriends over the same years and moved around enough that no grass grew under her shoes.  

She graduated from Tomah High School in May 1950 and spent the summer at home in Tomah, working at the local A&W.  Although neither Cyril nor Katie ever talked much about their dating life, it is likely they resumed their friendship that summer. At the end of summer training, Cyril returned to the University of Iowa and Katie started at the University of Wisconsin in Madison that fall majoring in Chemistry.  


Katie's College Womens' Dorm 
"The Badger Club"



The Badger Club Residents
University of Wisconsin - Madison
Fall 1950
Katie, age 18, is in the front row, 2nd from the right


Katie was awarded a one-year tuition scholarship to the University of Wisconsin and a monetary science award from Bausch & Lomb.  Her brother Kyle Kenyon gave her a significant gift of money on her graduation from high school which she used to help pay housing and expenses.  In addition, Katie found a job as a part time clerk-typist job in the Sociology Department at the UW.  Despite everything she did not have enough funds to continue after the first semester and had to step away from the university.  

Katie went to work for Cutler and Hamer Engineering Services as a full-time editorial-clerk in Milwaukee, Wisconsin for a little over a year from March 1951 through June of 1952 along with doubling up as a nanny for a local family.  Cyril was back in Camp McCoy the summer of 1951 when Katie was working in Milwaukee.  We do not know if they saw each other much, if at all, that summer.  


Katie, center
Milwaukee Club ca. 1951-1953

When Katie left Milwaukee and returned to Tomah the summer of 1952, she was employed at Camp McCoy as a clerk typist and continued there through September 1953.  She and Cyril may have dated the first summer in 1952, but he was officially sworn in as a second Lieutenant in the Army in February 1953 and was in France and Germany the summer of 1953.

Katie was able to go back to the University of Madison fall of 1953 as a full-time student.  She had dated a local boy from high school over the past few years and they became engaged Christmas 1953 over the winter break. The engagement was brief and was broken off because Katie wanted a large family, and he did not.  


Katie with "small gift"
Christmas 1953


By late spring 1954 Kathleen had moved on with her life and was socializing again at the university.  


"Pajama Party"
University of Wisconsin
Katie, center checked shirt.


Delta Theta Sigma Fraternity Formal
May 8, 1954
Katie is in the 2nd row, 3rd person from the left.

Katie was hired as a part-time typist by Solvit Chemical Company in Madison during the school year 1953-54 but needed a full-time job that summer to help with fall school expenses. During that summer of 1954, Katie returned to Tomah to work as a clerk-typist and stock-record clerk in the Commissary Office at Camp McCoy.  When it was time to go back to Madison for fall semester, she took on a part-time typist job with Schwarz Paper Company in Madison.  Cyril spent that entire time in France.

Always a very social young woman, Katie ran for and became a semi-finalist for the 1955 University of Wisconsin Prom Queen.





Katie permanently left school in February 1955, returning home to Tomah and went back to work in a promoted full-time position as Requisition Clerk for the Commissary Office at Camp McCoy until mid-October.  She quit her job at that point to get ready for her wedding to Cyril and prepare for a permanent move to Dubuque, Iowa.   Katie left college the first time to earn money to go back later, but it is unclear why she left college the second time as Cyril did not return from France until May 1955.  They may have been engaged already at that time and knew she would not finish before they were married.


Women Employees at Camp McCoy
September 2, 1955
Katie, center


Cyril returned from France in May 1955 and went to work as a mechanical engineer for the John Deere Tractor Works in Dubuque, Iowa.  Dubuque is 125 miles from Tomah and from photos taken he made the trip to see Katie several times that summer in his new Chevy Bel Air and used the camera he had purchased while visiting Germany.


Katie
Taken by Cyril Summer 1955

Katie and Cy
At the Beach, Summer 1955


Katie putting her hair up in her trademark pinwheels after swimming.
Summer 1955


Cyril in town for the Tomah Centennial Celebration
Katie, Fritz Kelley and Cy with Fritz's car
Summer 1955

Katie and Cy
Summer 1955


Cy and Katie's wedding was held on November 19, 1955, a cold, snowy weekend.  It was also the first day of deer hunting season in Wisconsin, a bone of contention with a brother and a couple of brothers-in-law! 


Katie and her mother, Harriet (Shookman) Kenyon 
leave the house to get ready for the wedding. 
Katie, the youngest of the 8 children was the last to get married. 


Tomah Methodist Church.
Postcard from 1956


Harriet, attaching Katie's veil shortly before the wedding.
Flower girl, Karen Greene, age 5.



Katie at the back of the church, escorted by her father, Charles Kenyon.



Wedding party photo after the ceremony.
Rev. Ernest Kistler (back)
L-R: Sandy Hart, Roxy Buxton (maid of honor), 
Katie & Cy, 
Bob Greene (best man) and Jim Link.
Karen Greene, flower girl and Danny Kenyon, ring bearer.


Marriage Record signed after the ceremony.


Receiving Line at the church.
Karen Greene, Dan Kenyon, 
Cyril, Bob Greene and Bob Von der Ohe


Off to the reception!
Bob Greene and Cy helping Katie into Cy's new car.


Exchanging bites of cake.
L-R: Sandy Hart, Cy and Katie, Roxy Buxton, Bob Greene.
Danny Kenyon is not all that interested!


Devilment is afoot!
Bob Greene, always full of fun himself, clearly sees the situation.

The Bridal Couple



Wedding Party
Sandra Hart (niece of bride), Roxy Buxton (maid of honor)
Kathleen and Cyril
Bob Greene (best man and husband of Cyril's sister, Phylis) and Jim Link, (lifelong friend of Cyril).


Wedding Announcement
Dec 8, 1955
La Crosse Tribune



Katie and Cyril spent their first months of married life at 1760 Adair Street.  This house belonged to Cyril's mother and step-father, Sadie and Maurice Bush who spent that winter in Arizona.




© Karla Von Fumetti Staudt

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Monday, June 14, 2021

Our Trip to Expo '67




Although we knew we were going on a trip, none of us really had much of an idea what a world's fair was, other than it would be bigger than our wonderful Dubuque County fairs that we went to each summer.  We knew it would have people from all over the world attending and that we were headed to Canada.   

With six children in our family by the summer of 1967, most people that knew our family, also knew that we traveled by station wagon which was one of few vehicles that would carry 8 people.  By that point in my young life, we were on station wagon number two; the red Chevy Impala station wagon with 3 rows of seats.  The back bench seat would lay down flat and created what we called "the way back".  Dad had cut a piece of foam and sewed a cover for it to make the area more comfortable.  This was in the years when seat belts were still optional, and we did not use them on any kind of a regular basis.  Of course, there were no seat belts in "the way back" and the car was pretty much a free-for-all with children switching seats, climbing back and forth, playing games, trying to sleep, teasing a sibling and almost anything else that we could think of to amuse ourselves.

Our family also did a lot of short distance traveling to visit relatives in Wisconsin and to go camping.  We had grown up and out of our original tent and into a tent trailer.  Dad, who was incredibly talented with carpentry work had fashioned two long, low-lying storage chests that sat to the one side of the trailer entrance and then made a table that would serve both as an eating or entertainment area when the weather was bad and would drop down to create another large sleeping area in the center of the trailer that a mattress would lay on top of.  The extra bed allowed 6 of us to sleep in the trailer. There was a lot of crawling over top of each other to get in the far bed, get out of the bed to go to the bathroom and back in again during the middle of the night.  I am sure my parents did not get a lot of sleep, but as kids it mostly did not bother us much to be the path to freedom for another sibling unless they stepped on our stomach or hit our nose with an elbow on their way.

That summer there was a lot of preparation for the trip with Mom menu planning and purchasing everything we would need for a couple of weeks and Dad getting the trailer ready and crafting a storage roof box for the top of the station wagon.  

The day before we left, we took the two youngest, Lisa who was almost 3 and Jill who was still an infant, to my grandparents' home as they were not going with us.  That in itself was a revelation because the Von Fumetti family usually traveled en masse!  Finally in the late afternoon, early that August in 1967, the 4 oldest children; Karla (10), Viki (9), Lynn (6) and Mark (5) climbed into the car over pillows, toys, games and whatever we thought we needed to amuse ourselves.  Dad's only rule then, as it would always be, was that if we took it, we had to carry it.  He would not and did not.  We learned early to pack light!  There is no telling who took up what position in the car that afternoon but assuredly it had changed dozens of times before we made it to Canada.  

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The trip from Dubuque to Montreal was over 1,000 miles.  That was also the days of highway speeds anywhere from 60 to 100 miles per hour but largely two-lane roads.  Dad and Mom drove straight through the night to Canada with only brief stops for gas and eating.  That is until we reached the Canadian border crossing at Windsor, Canada after traveling through the international tunnel from Detroit.  

Mom had packed enough food to see us largely through our time in Canada.  Among all the food was a case of fresh peaches, each hand-wrapped to protect them.  Fresh peaches in Iowa were a brief summer treat and not inexpensive.  When it was our turn to go through the border gates flying the Canadian flags, one of the questions that was asked was did we have any fresh produce in the car?  I am not sure if the peaches were in clear view, or they were the only fresh produce Mom had packed but we got flagged for the peaches.  The border guard was adamant that they could not be taken into Canada.  Mom was equally adamant that we were not going to leave them behind.  And we did not.  We pulled the car over to the side and were instructed to eat those peaches!  While enjoying the peaches with juice running down our arms and chins, we watched other cars get directed to different areas.  Some were nearly emptied with their belongings all out on the ground, hubcaps removed, etc. while the border guards looked for contraband.  Dad and Mom with 4 small faces sitting behind them in the car must have been deemed honest as the only thing that slowed us down were those peaches.  We all cheered as we finally drove through the gate into Canada.  

From there it was not a long drive to a campground where we would spend the first night and we finally got out of the car that mid-morning for more than a short stop.  Dad set up the camper and he and Mom pretty much collapsed for several hours catching some much-needed rest.  With the general childhood freedoms of the day, the four of us roamed the campground and entertained ourselves finding the playground, sand pits, and restrooms with Viki and I keeping an eye on Lynn and Mark. We had a quiet night in the campground and got up the next morning, packed and headed for Montreal.

Montreal had campgrounds set up for Expo '67 all over the surrounding area.  We were in a treeless field of sorts with campers and tents in long rows.  It was near the edge of Montreal somewhere and full of children to play with in the short hours we were there and not at the fair.  I met a new friend, Cheryl Raniere, from Halifax, Nova Scotia and we were pen pals for many years after leaving Montreal and I am still in contact with her.  



A baby elephant was being housed at the edge of our campground near the edge of town.  We enjoyed seeing it over the next few days and were thrilled to see the men and the young elephant again a year later in Monticello, Iowa at the Jones County Fair.

Finally, the time had come to actually go see the World's Fair.  It was not a long drive, but we entered a huge parking area that was filled with row after row of vehicles and as Dad drove up and down many rows, we had a difficult time finding a parking spot.  As we drove down yet another long line of cars without any empty spots, I saw one in the next row, yelled that I was going to "save it" and jumped out of the car without giving my startled parents any time to respond.  I dodged to the other side of the parked cars and stood in the empty spot waiting for Dad to make the long slow drive to the far end on the opposite side and head my way.  In the meantime, someone else had their eye on "my" parking spot and nosed their car into the front of the space.  I stood my ground, they eased in more, I stood my ground and smiled at them but refused to move.  They finally gave up and Dad pulled in almost the second after they backed out.



We all got out of the car and headed with excitement to see Expo '67.  There were small open air trams that picked us up and delivered us to one of the fair entrances near the United States pavilion.

The United States Pavilion, a Buckminster-Fuller geodesic dome.
Lynn, Katie, Viki, Karla and Mark.

The view in every direction was a wonder to take in.  Modern styled pavilions of every sort dotted the landscape and we read the name of different countries on the outside of some of them.  

The Cuban Pavilion (center), Venezuela (far left)

The Worlds Fair "Man the Explorer" Pavilion

The multi-flag area was the United Nations Pavilion "Place du Nations" looking out over the Saint Lawrence River.

Taking a break.
Lynn and Karla.  Kathleen, Mark and Viki.




The Canadian pavilion was the inverted pyramid to the far left with the Canadian Western Provinces pavilion in the center with the trees on top.

Time for a picture!
Mark, Viki, Lynn and Karla.


The Ontario Pavilion 

Headed to Germany's Pavilion.
Karla, Katie, Mark, Lynn, and Viki.


Worn out.
Mark, Kathleen, Lynn, Karla and Viki.


I know we saw a lot of new and exciting things over the three days we were there, but only a few have clearly taken root in my memory.  Things that stand out in my mind were the American Pavilion that had among other things escalators that were 3-4 stories high.  The largest I had ever been on was in JC Penney's in Dubuque which took you to the second floor.  They were awe inspiring as well as terrifyingly high.  There was a huge Raggedy Ann and Raggedy Andy exhibit in honor of the American author Johnny Gruelle who had created the stories and dolls. 

Inside the American Pavilion.


The multiple stories high escalators in the Geodesic Dome.

The Canadian Telephone Pavilion exhibited all sorts of new types of telephones, none of them cordless yet but intriguing all the same.  You could talk to someone and see them when you talked!  The Czechoslovakia Pavilion was full of amazing wood crafts.  They had a beautifully carved and crafted dollhouse which set a standard for doll houses that I have never seen surpassed.  We spent a lot of time looking at the beautiful woodwork and the mansion home of some incredibly lucky dolls.   Dad spent a lot of time looking at the craftmanship and how it was made.  Mom likely spent a fair amount of time keeping us corralled.   The Germany pavilion had a huge collection of every type and size of cuckoo and mechanical clocks which was entertaining, especially as the hour changed and everything started making music, cuckoo-ing, and moving.  


Time for a ride.  
Lynn and Viki.

We spent 3 days at the fair and from there headed to Quebec City and Old Quebec.  I was amazed mostly at the people who spoke a different language than we did and who I did not understand.  What I did understand was that they were incredibly rude to English speakers.  I have a clear memory of going into a casual restaurant that had menus in French.  Despite Dad having some experience with the French language 15 years earlier, none of us really could understand what we would be ordering, and the waiter refused to translate.  We all got up and left, very hungry and frustrated. 

On the move.
Old City of Quebec

The next day we went to a laundromat while still in Quebec and an older gentleman came in and visited with us while he and Mom were both doing laundry.  He had a soft-back memorial souvenir of the wedding of Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip which he showed me and when he saw how much I enjoyed looking at it gave it to me to take home.  So at least I knew not all Quebecers were rude and mean!

Le Chateau Frontenac along the Saint Lawrence River in Old Quebec City

Antique cannon rimming the Old Port of the Old City.
Viki, Lynn, Karla, Mark

We visited the Citadel of Quebec and watched the huge military tattoo on the fort parade grounds.  It was the 100th anniversary of the Canadian Confederation which was also celebrated in 1967.  The emblem above the fort entrance below was the symbol of the centennial.  We were able to watch some impressive precision marching and music as part of the celebration which was entrancing to all of us.

Citadel of Quebec with the Centennial Logo of the Canadian Confederation
with the Military Tattoo formed of different regiments from all over Canada.


Raising the Canadian Flag

From there we headed to the Canadian side of Niagara Falls at Toronto, Ontario.  It was a beautifully landscaped park and the falls seemed impossibly big.  We all took a boat ride on the "Maid of the Mist" and took in the view from below as well as getting quite damp from the spray.  

 

"Maid of the Mist" at the base of the falls.

The Ontario Needle Tower adjacent to Niagara Falls.
The Von Fumetti family is the small group on the lawn!


Beautiful gardens surrounded the park at Niagara Falls.
One of the few pictures that Dad is in!
Karla, Viki, Lynn, Cyril and Mark.


Looking up at Dad from the manicured gardens.
Karla, Mark, Viki, Lynn and Katie



A few quiet moments at the end of our trip.
Viki, Karla, Lynn, Mark


I have no memories of the trip home.  More than likely, we were all worn out and slept along the way.  It was the longest trip that we took together as a family, but we continued to travel and camp most of the years that we were all growing up.  


© Karla Von Fumetti Staudt

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